Monday, August 25, 2008

Denying Paternity

So today we were at Family Court for child support for my granson Joe. The father has never seen Joe before. You would think that he would at least try to catch a glimpse of his beautiful son. But there was no effort.

When we went before the judge the case was withdrawn. Baby's Daddy is denying that he fathered my grandson. There will be DNA test ordered. This is an act of buying time.
My daughter was devastated. It killed me to see that happen to her. She came face to face with the man that abused her. The same man that tried to make her abort. And she was so strong. But then came his denial of his own son. And the devastation and broken heart of my daughter came to the surface.

As a mom trying to be there for her and Joe I felt so helpless. I couldn't change any of this. All there is to do now is pray that God will continue to hold both of them tightly in his hands.


Erin said...

Oh Tara. I'm praying you are able to be who your daughter needs you to be, and that God will resolve this in the best interest of that baby boy.

Tara said...

It's so hard to see my girl walk thru this. This is not the life that I wanted for my daughter. Thanks for the prayers. Hugs!